Kennedy Joan

American author and wife of 1960 U.S. Senator Edward Kennedy 1958-1982. A shy, retiring person, Joan is often to described as vulnerable. A biography by David Lester, "Joan the Reluctant Kennedy," was published in 1994 and an unauthorized biography, "Living With the Kennedys: The Joan Kennedy Story" was written in 1985 by Marcia Chellis, a confidant Joan had met in AA. Arrested twice in three years on DWI charges, Joan finally lost her license to drive in May of 1991. Born into the upper class and living only three blocks from the Kennedy mansion in Bronxville, Westchester, NY, Joan Bennett had Golden Girl striking good looks. She did very well in school attending Sacred Heart Convent School, of which Rose Kennedy was an alumna, then Manhattanville College with Jean Kennedy. Hand picked because of her background, she was the most likely candidate for the youngest of the Kennedy sons, Edward. Rose asked son Teddy to give a speech at the dedication of a new gymnasium donated in honor of his sister Kathleen at Manhattanvilles new campus in Purchase, NY, October 1957. Jean introduced Ted to Joan who was immediately attracted to him. After her graduation in June 1958, Teddy asked her to visit the family in Hyannis Port, MA. An interview visit with Rose didnt bother Joan. She was invited to visit the family several times during the summer of 1958 at their compound. All their dates that summer were well chaperoned which suited Joan as she wished to remain a virgin until marriage. On her last visit Ted asked if she would like to get married and she said yes. Joan was used to being courted, but Ted couldnt be bothered, he was on the campaign trail with brother John. Their engagement party was arranged and Ted didnt arrive until the party was half over, coming in through servants quarters, handing Joan an unopened box containing the engagement ring his father Joe had purchased for her. When she started having second thoughts, her parents visited with the elder Kennedy who demanded the wedding take place as planned as he would have nothing in the papers about a son of his being tossed over. Their wedding took place in November 1959 with Cardinal Spellman officiating. She had difficult pregnancies and three miscarriages. Daughter Kara was born in 1960, Ted, Jr. in 1961 and Patrick, 1967. It was mentally and emotionally difficult to deal with a son with bone cancer and a philandering husband who made headlines with an incident of driving off a bridge near Chappaquiddick, MA on 7/18/1969, killing a passenger, Mary Jo Kopechne. Joan insisted that she didnt have a drinking problem until the early 1970s though people had noticed her problems with alcohol as early as 1963. She joined Alcoholics Anonymous in 1974, being admitted to private sanitariums at least three times during the year. The family hired a priest psychiatrist who flew to Washington each week to talk with Joan, assured of his confidentiality. She separated from her husband, moving to Boston and returning to school in April 1977, then reuniting with him in November 1979 for his campaign. At one point she started wearing outrageously provocative clothing thinking that she no longer appealed to Teddy. They divorced in 1982, and she has remained on friendly terms with Ted and his second wife, Victoria; being included in many family functions. In November 1992 her first book "The Joy of Classical Music" was published. She had a mild heart attack on 5/10/1999, Bost Read less